Oh, “Brother”!

’Brother’ is an English noun meaning ‘male sibling.’ As with many words in many languages, usage may confer different meanings. ‘Brother’ could mean someone that is identical to another person. So, when extended, it could convey an associate, a colleague, a comrade, a political friend, etc.

No matter how we turn it or twist it, ‘brother’ is an endearing term. It can only connote evil when it is associated with evil. For example, a brother of an tyrant may be a good person, but the association taints his goodness. The same consideration applies to a ‘sister.’

Therefore, it was good and great when ex-Governor Peter Obi called ex-Governor Rashidi Adewolu Ladoja “a brother”—as did Atiku and Tinubu! Beyond being brother citizens of Nigeria, they are political brothers—both being two-term governors of different states at the same time (2003).

So, what was the fuss about calling the now Kabiyesi, His Royal Majesty Olubadan of Ibadan a “brother”? In a standard season in a sane society, the gesture would be applauded. Alas, nothing about Peter Obi is laudable among his political detractors; his gentility and humility are not spared!

Ignorance is not an incurable illness; knowledge is the remedy. In Igbo society, “nwanne m” (my sibling) is an endearing term. Look at the etymology: “Nwa nne m” (child of my mother). It is an honor for one to share the warm womb of the same woman. By calling another “nwanne m,” you are significantly and symbolically sharing that sacred space of gestation for 280 days or 70 native weeks (10 lunar months).

‘Nwanne’ should not be confused with ‘nwanna’ (kinsman)—which is more like ‘bros’! Thus, when next someone calls you a “brother” or “sister,” appreciate it, even if you are a lord and personal savior!

@OkaaMoe

9.30.2025